I think the process is more important;
Everytime when I remind the process of love,I have complex
feeling,sometime sweet and some time sorrow,
Many people tell me not to remind such things,
I try my best to forget them,but I find it is hard to do so;
Although sometimes I really think to remove all the things from　
my mind,especially when those feelings interrupt my daily life,
after a thorough thought I realize if I reach the aim ,I will also　
be unhappy ,so I now consider we should let all the things be the　
initial state .
So at this time ,I think if you can not forget something　
do not try　hard to forget it ,
maybe some time you will find valuable.